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Amber Nelson's avatar

My local tavern is like the living room for the neighborhood. When my dad’s cancer came back, it was the first place I went to process my feelings, and the bartenders gave me a free beer and a free sandwich and lots of hugs. When the landlord fucked up our door lock and I couldn’t get into the building (without telling us he had done this!), one of the tavern regulars came back with me and helped me, even though it was 10:00 at night and raining. It is a place I can always go to where I feel like I belong. There’s something about the tavern, the pub, the local bar, that can have way more of a community feeling than the coffee shop or the gym or other third spaces (or church tbh no shade just how it’s been for me personally). The fact that it happens to be centered around alcohol maybe has something to do with it but either way I’m grateful to have it. Maybe it’s the last place left where people go with the express purpose of talking to each other.

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Jesse C. McEntee's avatar

Great, nuanced commentary Skylar. During my time in Cardiff I realized the important value of community pubs.

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